Tuesday, March 2, 2010
[i misses hym so much.]
Written by; ♥sakurako
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love life shouldnt be struggle. i know its hard to find true love. some give a comment like 'true love? is ther true love in this life?' or ' haha i dont believe in love life love sucks'. love is not about e feeling of love twrds somebody or how u must react over another party. but is about how u understands ech other needs n acceptance of differences. many mens thought that women must think like howthey think. n women thought that men must be like what they are. they are just invitin conflict, mistrust, misunderstandin etc. if they would hav think that mens n womens comes from different world just like mars n venus, comes from different planet. comes to earth n fall in love. shared thing together, do things together n everything together. but they almost fergot that both are from different world. wher they both can be one another or change one another. as we could see relationship nowadays too much of conflicts n arguements over such a small issues then leads to 95 percent of them break up as no understanding n chemistry between ech of em. well all of this problems can be settle immediate but hav to do it practically n theoritically. its effort on finding way out, understands ech needs n translate men/ womens language to their own hearers.too much things could be done. but just lazybums n losers gives up hopes wen ther is still space fer them to correct those mistake n live happily ever. in the ways of womens thinking by givin guys an advise or solution in solvin their prob is one of e biggest inslut or criticism given by e womens n make them feel unlove n untrust in solvin by their on; like depend on others. wher on the other hand womens think that they do as becoz they care n love them soo much . whereas e women seek e men to hears their problems out, just to listen not to comment or give a solution or an advise. but mens think womens approach was wantin a solution wen they just need a listenin ear then they will feel relief n at ease. but they will feel that men resist in hearin their probs wen men tend to find benefits of solvin her problems wen they dont need it. if u nodded u head and sayin 'yes yes yes that was me' not only u thought of that . e whole world will sure nodded becoz world is circle. all goes round.so men must learn to listen n response wen needed, n women must just accept e differences in mens n dun feel neglected wen all that apply thats wen love will grow blossomly. n acceptace e differences between mens n womens.-guidance by 'mens are mar womens are venus'ps: this book help me soo much in improvin my relationship with ali. do try it. it helps trust me.
Written by; ♥sakurako